Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Notes from Nettrekker Article- "Victims of Domestic Violence"

Characteristics of abused victims:
  • Self-esteem based primarily of self-in-relationship
  • Stress reactions
  • Denial or minimization of violence
  • Believes abuse is deserved and adjusts to 'normalize' the abuse and violence
Barriers to leaving:
  • Frequency and severity of battering
  • Battered person's childhood history of abuse
  • Economic dependence
  • Fear
  • Isolation
  • Beliefs about the batterer
  • Religious beliefs

Friday, September 24, 2010

Domestic Violence notes

Source Citation: "Domestic violence." World of Health. Gale, 2007. Gale Student Resources In Context. Web. 24 Sept. 2010.



  • Domestic violence is a prevalent social issue in the U.S.
  • Est. 2-4 million women report abuse, thousands are  killed (yearly)
  • An estimated(est.) 1/3 of women in the U.S. will be abused in their lifetime
  • Victims 85% Female 15% male
  • More than 3 women killed by abuse daily
  • 70% intimate partner murders are women
  • 10% of women's children also abused
  • Just as prevalent in same-sex realtionships
  • Abuse mostly used as a control device
  • 47% male batterers beat partners 35 a year
  • Mostly hitting, punching, slapping, biting, arm twisting, use of weapon
  • Abusive behavior usually becomes an established pattern, starting with abuse followed by apologies and loving behavior as the cycle becomes increasingly shorter
  • Average victim leaves relationship 7 times before making a permanent break, then risk of injury or death increases
  • Low self image along with degreading comments, shame, and threats prevent victims from leaving the relationship
  • Stress from finances, work, or lack of job is higher cause for violence than alcohol or drug abuse
  • More than 3 million children see abuse in their household, making them 1500 times more likely to be abused or abusive
  • 27% of children make up domestic killings, 90% of whom are under 10  years old, 56% are under the age of 2.

Sunday, September 19, 2010

5 Research Paper Questions- Domestic Violence

1. How are children affected by growing up in abusive households?

2. Are people raised in abusive households more or less likely to be abusive in their future relationships?

3. What are the major causes of abuse?

4. What measures can be taken against an abusive person?

5. Where can victims of abuse go to for help, especially if they are threatened?

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Research Paragraph- Domestic violence

Kaley M.
Mrs. Zurkowski
Honors English 9 Purples
13 September 2010

Book: Nothing to Lose by Alex Flinn
Topic: Domestic Violence
Search Terms:
1.      “Domestic violence”
2.      “Battered Spouse Syndrome”
3.      “Spousal abuse”
4.      “Child Abuse”
5.      “Intimate Partner Violence”
6.      “Domestic abuse”
7.      “Family violence”

Domestic Violence
            In Nothing to Lose by Alex Flinn, one of the most prominent issues is domestic violence. Domestic violence is a very serious, preventable public health problem that affects over 32 million Americans. It can be called many different things, but some of the most prominent words used to describe domestic violence are domestic abuse, spousal abuse, child abuse or intimate partner violence. Domestic violence can consist of many different things, such as hitting, kicking, biting, slapping, shoving, restraining, throwing objects, intimidation, being overbearing or controlling, stalking, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, physical abuse, neglect, and economic deprivation. It can be caused by a number of different things, such as alcohol/drug use, mental illness, and environment while growing up. In my opinion, domestic violence is an important issue because no human being deserves to be treated abusively.
 Description: http://www.harfordsheriff.org/bureaus/services/court/domestic_violence/images/domestic_violence_month.gif
Some information taken from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Letter to Michael from Nothing to Lose by Alex Flinn

703 Churchville Rd.
Bel Air, MD 21014
7 September 2010

Dear Michael,

My name is Kaley M., I’m a freshman at the John Carroll School, and I live in Forest Hill, MD.. Over the summer, I read about your struggle with your home life and your life traveling with the carnival. While you were traveling with the carnival during your summer, I was traveling too. I went to Washington D.C. with my best friend for a week on a trip with a group called People to People World Leadership Forum. I also visited my family up in Massachusetts, went down to the Outer Banks in North Carolina, and stayed in my family’s beach house for a week in Bethany Beach. I didn’t go to any carnivals, or Florida, but I did go to Cedar Point, Ohio, and rode all of the roller coasters there at the roller coaster capital of America, Cedar Point. It is home to some of the biggest, fastest, longest, tallest, unique, and extreme roller coasters in the world.

While reading Nothing to Lose, I really admired how protective you were of your mother. It did surprise me that it was you who killed Walter, but I was relieved when it was ruled as justifiable homicide. I was as frustrated as you were when no one would listen and help you and your mother get away from Walter. Although I don’t think running away from home was the best way to react to your situation, it did make for a good storyline.

Alex Flinn’s writing style seemed to me that the words were coming from her heart, and that she actually felt all the pain, sadness, joy, and other emotions that the characters felt. The only thing I didn’t like about her writing was that I don’t think she portrayed your mother as the strong, independent character you describe her as. I think that you as a character had very raw emotions that were described in a way that would make it easy for readers to understand what you were feeling as, for example, you recounted what really happened on the night of Walter’s death.

I was wondering, what happened between you and Kirstie? The ending of the book kind of trails off and doesn’t leave enough detail as to if you two ever contacted each other again. Also, I was curious as to what your friendship is like with Julian ever since his stepmother helped you win the case against killing Walter.

I think that Nothing to Lose has definitely left me more aware of domestic violence. Even though I realized before reading the book that it is a serious issue, I think that now it will hold a higher significance in my head after reading about your ordeal.

I hope that you and Kirstie talk again soon, and I wish you and your mom the best. I hope that the two of you can go back to living like you were before Walter came along.

Sincerely,
Kaley M

Introduction of Nothing to Lose and Alex Flinn, with Summer Reading Questions

Over the summer I read Nothing to Lose by Alex Flinn. It was about a boy named Michael who suffers from domestic violence from his stepfather Walter. He runs away after his mother is put on trial for the murder of Walter, only to be haunted by his past and brought back to his home to do what is right.

Kaley M

Nothing to Lose by Alex Flinn
Social issues: Runaway children, family violence

The Book:

1. The main character is Michael Daye, a seventeen year old aspiring football player who runs away from home after the killing of his abusive stepfather. Michael is athletic, protective of his mother, and independent.

2. In the beginning of the book, many main characters such as Michael, Michael’s mom, Lisa, and Michael’s stepfather, Walter are introduced as well as Michael’s current living situation (traveling with a carnival) and his past living situation (living with his mother and stepfather, who beats and threatens Michael’s mother). In the middle of the book, Michael’s life with his mother and Walter is explored, and it is found that Walter is extremely abusive and is also ruining Michael’s life along with his mother’s. The middle of the book also profiles Michael’s relationships with his friends at school, his mother, and his girlfriend Kirstie. In the end of the book, Michael seeks help with proving his mother innocent and admits that it was actually him who killed Walter, not his mother. Michael’s mother’s charges are released and him and his mother go back to living with each other.

3. I think that Alex Flinn is trying to communicate the importance of moving on from past experiences and letting go of bad memories in life. She shows how Michael overcomes the abuse Walter put him and his mother through and how they manage to set the recollections of Walter into the past.

The Issues:

1. Family violence affected Michael, Michael’s mother, and Walter throughout Nothing to Lose. It affected Michael’s mom because she was the one receiving the brunt of it. Family violence affected Walter in his childhood as well as his adult life; he grew up with violence in his home, therefore he used violence in his own household and ended up dead. Family violence also affected Michael; he quit the football team, cut off his relationships with his friends, let his grades drop, ran away from home, and even was lead to murder because of it.

2. When Michael’s mother is in the hospital because of Walter beating her, the issue of family violence seems real and important when Michael is talking with the nurse about domestic violence. Family violence also seems real and important right before Walter’s death, when the author describes Michael’s emotions as he comes home to when he picks up the fire poker. Alex Flinn makes these issues immediate and personal by describing emotions relevant with her readers, so they can relate (at least somewhat) to how Michael is feeling.

My Unique Profile

Kaley M.

Mrs. Zurkowski

Honors English 9 Purples

3 September 2010


My Unique Profile

My name’s Kaley M., I’m a freshman at The John Carroll School. I used to go to Harford Day School. I like to read, write, bake, act, hang out with friends, and do other general teenage girl stuff. My favorite books are the Percy Jackson series, the Harry Potter series, the Mortal Instruments series and anything by Sarah Dessen. Oh, and I make AWESOME blondies. I babysit a lot, mostly my brothers, but sometimes I actually get to babysit kids that do other things besides watch T.V. and eat. Variety is thrilling, no? I’d really like to get involved in the play, Book Club, Debate Team, and possibly badminton. My favorite band is Train, and I really like the song "Hey Soul Sister". It’s been my favorite song since I first heard it on the radio, which is kind of weird because usually I change favorite songs often. My favorite color is purple, I have two brothers (Riley and Ethan), and my cat Gyro is probably the fattest cat you’ll ever see. That’s me in a nutshell. :)

Pictures from my summer:
Over the summer I went on a trip called People to People World Leadership Forum(with Madison!). It was super duper fun and I made a ton of great friends. TEAM AWESOME!
This was our group at the Roosevelt Memorial on our last day in D.C. We called ourselves Team Awesome. We definitely lived up to our name.

This is Madison and I posing for the camera. You can't tell but we were in front of the Lincoln Memorial. Good times.

I also went to Cedar Point, the roller coaster capitol of the world. This is the Top Thrill Dragster. It lasts 22 seconds, and what happens is it shoots you off at a speed of 120 mph in four seconds. You go 420 feet straight up  in the air, then corkscrew straight back down. This picture doesn't even get all of it. It was pretty much the best thing ever.